I live in the deep south, where we don’t have snowflakes, we have thunderstorms, and let me tell you, we saw one today. Hundreds of people showed up HERE, in Mississippi of all places, to march for women’s rights, to say that Black Lives Matter, climate change is real, love is love, and immigrants make America great, so you can save your insults, because we are not afraid of you. We are the storm!
I want you to hear me now.
WE WILL NEVER SHUT UP.
I know why you want us to. It’s because every moment that we resist, speak up, defend our rights, march, rally, tweet, blog, write, perform, sing, and generally take up space, you get a little uncomfortable. That’s what being wrong feels like. It feels like embarrassment, shame, humiliation. I understand. I have felt all those things, and I empathize, but I also see right through you. Your defensiveness, bullying, desperate clinging to old worn out backwards ideas of the south, of faith, of God, of a twisted hypocritical morality are more transparent than the wrapper on a fruit roll-up.
Here’s what you need to know. We will never get over it and move on.
WE WILL NEVER ACCEPT DONALD TRUMP.
The reason is simple. Trump has crossed way too many lines, remorselessly, purposefully, to gain personal power.
You may be able to ignore his bragging about sexual assault, but as a survivor, I will never be able to do that. Every time I see that man, I will remember his cruel, shameful, disgusting words on that tape, and every time they will remind me of my own assaults, of the many times I have been groped, harassed, and treated as an object. Every time he is physically near a woman, I fear for her safety. I remember the many victims who spoke out against him. I remember the many young beauty pageant contestants who claimed he violated their privacy and made them feel unsafe. I remember the insults and the misogynist language he has used to humiliate and threaten women, on tape, for the whole world to hear. I do not accept that.
You may be able to ignore his mocking of a disabled reporter, but I will never be able to do that. I have too many disabled family members, have seen too much suffering, and carry way too much empathy and kindness in my heart to accept that.
You may be able to ignore his racism, but I will never be able to do that. I am raising a woman of color. I care more about her than I care about anything else in this world. I care more about her future than anything else in this world. I care more about her heart and soul than anything else in this world. I would do anything for that child. She is the number one reason I marched today. I will not miss an opportunity to do everything in my power to make her path in life safer and more joyful.
You may be able to ignore his hatred of immigrants, but I will never be able to do that. I know that had my family, generations ago, and the father of my child’s family, just one generation ago, not immigrated here, that I would not have my daughter, my home, my citizenship, and I know that this country would be worse off. I cannot accept that.
You may be able to ignore his Islamophobia, but I will never be able to do that, because I know that the freedom I have to practice my religion, is incumbent on all people being free to practice their religion, or none at all, and that hatred is neither Christian, nor practical.
You may be able to ignore his lies, but I will never be able to do that, because I place a high moral value on the truth, on honesty, on facts, on information, on data, on science, and on integrity.
You may be able to ignore the damage he will do to our planet, but I will never be able to do that. Science does not care what your opinion is. Climate change is real, and if you don’t understand it, stop reading this right now, and get informed. All you need to do is a simple google search and you will have a wealth of knowledge right at your fingertips. Our world already has climate refugees. We already have melting ice, disappearing habitats, natural disasters, drought, wildfires, earthquakes, rising oceans, rapid warming, grave economic, wildlife, and human loss. At this point, it is not a question of if it will happen, but, how bad will it be? Without a president who takes this seriously we will all suffer, gravely, our children and grandchildren most of all, and I do not accept that.
I could go on. Trump’s list of crimes, frauds, insults, bullying, hate, lies, and ignorance, seems to get longer each and every single day. The important thing to understand, is that there is nothing he can do to earn my acceptance of him, short of a remorseful public apology to the many groups he has threatened and insulted, followed by his immediate resignation, and disappearance from public life.
But of course, there is good news. We do not need Trump’s permission to be kind, good, moral, just people. We don’t need his permission to donate our (TAX DEDUCTIBLE) money to organizations that combat hate, help those in need, and help heal our souls.We do not need Trump’s permission to treat each other with kindness and respect. We do not need Trump’s permission to accept and love all people, regardless of skin color, socioeconomic status, immigration status, sexual or gender identity, or religion. We do not need Trump’s permission to register to vote, to organize our communities, to run for office, to volunteer, to take back the legislature in 2018, to support women, to fight for our rights, to protest, to make art, to be creative, to believe survivors of sexual assault nor to demand accountability and fairness from our government. We don’t need his permission to raise an entire generation of strong powerful women, of future presidents, of leaders of the next revolution.
I want us all to take this moment, this day, where we made such an incredible, powerful, open, loving, and massive display of our power and let it be OUR INAUGURATION as the leaders we must be, and Trump supporters, when you live in a fairer, better, wealthier, healthier, safer country because of us, you can thank us later. You are welcome to join this movement at any time. There are no walls here.